This is your survival kit.
They lied when they said time heals all wounds. Here’s what actually does. This will hurt. But staying stuck will hurt more.
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You’ve been told to “just be positive.” To “wait for the right time.” To “trust the process.” But where has that gotten you? Stuck. Burned. Unsafe.
Here’s the truth: positivity won’t protect you. Only brutal honesty will.
Inside you’ll find 100 unfiltered lessons that sting at first but will save you for life. This isn’t another motivational fluff piece. It’s a survival kit for you, who are tired of:
Giving second chances to people who never deserved a first.
Feeling unsafe in love, career, or even in their own choices.
Waiting for clarity that never comes.
Playing small because of fear, doubt, or comparison.
The Hard-Hitting Shifts
That Change Everything
Here’s What You’ll Walk Away With
🌀 Quick Wins (Phase 1)
First Mindset Shift in 24 Hours
You’ll immediately see which patterns are making you unsafe -- emotionally, mentally, or even physically.
sYou’ll start to:
Spot toxic behaviors before they trap you.
Stop apologizing for setting boundaries.
Protect your peace instead of giving it away.some stuff
🧠 Growth (Phase 2)
Confidence within 7 Days
Not the fake, Instagram version — but the kind that roots in self-worth
You’ll learn:
Why people-pleasing is a dangerous trap (and how to break it).
How to build boundaries that no one can cross.
The mindset shifts that keep you secure in relationships, work, and life.
🚀 Transformation (Phase 3)
Unbreakable within 30 days
When you follow the lessons:
You’ll move from being vulnerable to manipulation… to being in full control of your safety and your future.
Your decisions will change.
Your standards will rise.
Your life will feel lighter, not because challenges disappear, but because you’ll finally know how to handle them.
What You’ll Finally Learn
(The Stuff Nobody Told You)
100 unfiltered truths that may sting now but will help you heal for real, so you stop seeking validation, break your old patterns, and build unshakable self-respect and action.
You will be unstoppable.
SELF-GROWTH:
The Unfiltered Reality of
Becoming Your Best
SUCCESS & FAILURE:
The Price of Winning
(and Losing)
RELATIONSHIPS:
Love, Loss, and the Hard Truths No One Tells You
MENTAL STRENGTH:
Master Your Mind,
Master Your Life
AUTHENTICITY:
Stop Hiding.
Start Living.
From Stuck to Strong:
Words From Our Readers
Akala ko self-help books are just motivational quotes. But this one? Grabe, tinamaan ako sa unang chapter pa lang. I stopped comparing myself to classmates who seemed ahead, and focused on my own pace. For the first time, I feel like I’m not late.”
Ana, 20
College Student
“After years of people-pleasing, I finally realized how much I was burning out. The calls to action helped me set boundaries at work and even at home. I have more energy, and most importantly, peace.”
Lea, 30
Nurse
“Honestly, I thought this was just another ‘self-help for women’ type of book. But when I read it, I realized the brutal truths apply to anyone. I was stuck in a failing career path, too scared to move. The lesson about clarity coming after action hit me hard. Two months later, I finally switched jobs, and for the first time in years, I feel like I’m building a life I actually want.”
Paolo, 28
Software Developer
“I was embarrassed to admit I felt lost. My friends seemed sure about their careers, while I was jumping from gig to gig. Reading this book made me realize I didn’t need to have it all figured out before moving. I started small — applied the workbook — and now I’m building consistency instead of drowning in doubt.”
Kyle, 22
College Dropout, Freelancer
"Sabay kong hawak yung business at family kaya lagi akong feeling stuck and overwhelmed. Pero itong book na ‘to, reminded me that clarity follows action. Kaya instead na maghintay ng ‘perfect time,’ nilaunch ko na rin yung side project that I had been delaying for years, all because of my excuse that I was waiting for that 'perfect time.'.And all it took was that first step to action."
Carmela, 35
Small Business Owner
“I’ve built a few small businesses, pero secretly I was battling imposter syndrome. This book called me out in ways I didn’t expect. It reminded me that even at my age, I can rebuild, reset, and rise stronger. Hindi lang ito for Gen Z or millennials. Kahit mid-40s ka na, the truths still cut deep and heal.”
Mara, 45
Entrepreneur
About
Jenny Rose "JENDY" Dy
I’m a life coach, digital entrepreneur, and advocate of transformational growth, on a mission to help people rise, reclaim their potential, and own their path from within. I challenge comfort zones, ignite inner shifts, and live by the belief: “Build yourself from within” and “Meet life fully; meet life as a friend.”
With over 20 years of experience in Learning and Development, I’m not just a life coach or digital entrepreneur, I’m a transformation catalyst. From the buzzing floors of BPOs to high-stakes boardrooms in telecom, aviation, retail, and banking, I’ve led impactful learning journeys that empowered thousands.
Today, I’m building a digital empire rooted in authenticity, sustainable success, and soulful strategy. My mission? To empower others to rise beyond limits, unlock their brilliance, and thrive—on their terms.
Let’s turn your challenges into catalysts, your dreams into plans, and your potential into unstoppable power.
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This Will Hurt:
But It Will Change Your Life
(100 Unfiltered Brutal Lessons
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100 brutal, unfiltered lessons that sting now but save you forever
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This eBook delivers 100 unfiltered truths and lessons that may sting now but will help you heal for real, so you stop seeking validation, break your old patterns, build unshakeable self-respect, and return to your power that is your birthright.
Your next step to becoming unbreakable starts here.
You will gain:
Clarity to see (and stop) self-sabotage
Boundaries that protect peace and energy
Freedom from people-pleasing and overthinking
Confidence rooted in self-worth, not approval
Courage to choose tough-but-right decisions
A bias toward action (tiny, daily, doable steps)